Love engraved

I was doing the dishes earlier today, when my fingers moved over what appeared to be some sort of small stain. I scrubbed hard, but it seemed to remain. On closer inspection, I realized that it was an inscription in the steel.

I smiled. Why? Read on…

We Indians, especially down South, love stainless steel. Most of our kitchens are filled with stainless steel cookware – spoons, ladles, forks, knives, glasses (steel ones, we call them tumblers😆), plates, pots, pans, cookers – every single item in steel.

When a girl gets married, her mom typically gives her a basic set of kitchen utensils and cutlery to take with her to her new home.

Back in the 70s and 80s, most Indians lived in joint families, and if a home had many daughters-in-law, each with her own kitchenware, how did they tell all the utensils apart?  So, the moms of these girls usually got the girls’ initials engraved on their utensils. No confusion. All one had to do was look closely for the initials, to know which was yours.



Though people moved away from their homes, and families became nuclear, this practice of monogramming kitchenware was in vogue even when I got married.

I still remember the days before my wedding, when my Dad and Mom, had the utensils engraved with my new initials NN. I remember how they came home, and told me, happily, that the job was done.

The days before the wedding were filled with fun and nostalgia, for all that I would leave behind and for all the things I would embrace in my new home.

I come back to the now and look at the engraving NN ….parents’ love captured forever. Miss you Dad and Mom. Thank you for everything

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17 Responses to Love engraved

  1. Ritu says:

    Aw, what a memory!

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  2. Usha j says:

    So true Nirmala ! All our parents wud have did this with pride, (am sure with a heavy heart that we’re moving out ). Can feel it now. Apt title 👍👏👏

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  3. katelon says:

    What a sweet tradition.

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  4. I’m such a bad cook. You could probably tell which ones mine were even without the initials because mine would have never been used. Ha, ha!

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  5. Shivangi says:

    Very nostalgic…:)

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  6. priyankamoraes says:

    Etched forever . Wonderful piece !

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  7. D K Powell says:

    Awww this was sweet!

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  8. Aadhirai says:

    This reminded me of the time me and my friends got steel key chains and had our names engraved on it.. It was a Mickey mouse key chain and the person was sweet to add a smiley 🙂 after all our names.. 😀

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