A slice of family history


Thanks to messaging apps and social networks, families and friends have come closer. There is a joy in reconnecting with cousins, aunts and uncles, and knowing that you are family.

This afternoon, on my husband’s maternal cousins’ group, I saw a few photographs. Some of the cousins had visited the family’s ancestral home, and the village temple nearby.

The house, though occupied by other people, has stood the test of time – teakwood staircases and doorways, and lots of memories.

As I saw the photographs, my husband casually mentioned that he was born there, in that house. While I knew that he was born in that small village, I had not made the connection to the house.

That transformed the way I looked at the pictures. This was a part of our family history. My imagination soared.

Then I imagined how my husband would have walked up and down these wooden stairs on chubby legs, being chased by an aunt or his mom; how he would have played with cousins and watched the hens clucking in the yard. The home had a barn, where there was a beautiful cow named Radhamani, who was loved and cherished by all the family members. After my husband’s parents moved to the city, most school holidays were spent in this house.

Four other cousins were also born in the same house. Lots of stories and memories there.

I only know the husband I met nearly two decades ago, but starting from the ancestral home he was born in, and the lovely family who surrounded him, there were so many factors that have made him the person he is today.

It was nice listening to interesting family anecdotes, and to realize that there was a time, when my husband and I led independent lives, unbeknownst to each other.

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20 thoughts on “A slice of family history

  1. That’s wonderful to have access to such history. Those stairs look quite treacherous..glad everyone survived them. They look more like a ladder.

    My Mom’s dad came over as an orphan from Russia. The birth certificate I found for him makes no sense so it probably was a fake purchased for residency. My Dad’s mom died when he was 11. My entire birth family is dead and my Dad’s step family is so fragmented that his history is gone. My mom was an only child so that history is gone. I did find a house in Tucson, AZ though that my mom’s Dad built when she was nine and moved there. I taped an interview I did with my mom a few years before she died so at least I have that.

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