My daughter and I are out shopping. The mall is crowded with shoppers, all of them on a mission.
My daughter’s list is both simple and complicated. Simple because her colour choices are limited to only black or blue. Complicated because we are scouring every shop looking for that particular top or dress that matches the image she has in her mind. Our time is limited, so we are walking down each aisle, our eyes piercingly intent on the task at hand.
After what seems like ages, my daughter pronounces herself satisfied; mainly because of the addition of a black hoodie to her collection.
On the way out of the mall, I quickly rush to pick up a lip liner and a compact from my favourite brand. And, as I wait in line to pay, my eyes are drawn to a red box that looks familiar. I go over to see it up close.
I was right! This was the first perfume that I had bought with my own money, nearly two decades ago. I had saved up to buy three things – this perfume, a camera and a hair dryer, all of which weresome of my treasured possessions then.
I pick up the tester bottle, and gently spray the perfume on my wrist. I inhale…just a whiff…and I am transported.
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Transported to another time in my life, where there was no husband and kids, where life revolved around my career, parents and siblings.
A life that was filled with so many possibilities and fun. It was time spent with friends, and shopping. It was time spent wondering about the future. It was time spent on my red bike that took me everywhere. It was also a time of loss, when my grandmom died, and a time of joyous celebration when my niece was born the next year.
It was the threshold time before both marriage and motherhood; a time that was my own.
I smile and share some of these memories with my daughter. “When did I stop using this perfume”, I ask myself.
But that’s life for you – as it takes you on new journeys, other fragrances and experiences enrich you, making you forget the old and the sweet.
But, all it took was a whiff ….to bring it all back. My daughter sniffs appreciatively and asks if she can use it. I say yes.
And very soon, she will also embark on new journeys and create her own memories, which I hope are as fragrant as this perfume that’s wafting in the air.