After marriage and kids, rare indeed are the opportunities for one to spend quality time with one’s mom, especially if both of you live in different cities.
I’ve suddenly got this opportunity to make a dashing visit to my mom’s place, at the end of a long, busy day.
It is past 11 pm when I reach. I hear my mom’s cheerful voice the moment I ring the calling bell.
I am enveloped in a huge mom-hug. And, as we chatter away, trying to catch up on all news, she walks into the kitchen and comes back with a hot cup of filter coffee, prepared to perfection, just the way I like it.
I stretch out and revel in the joy of spending time with my mom, without the kids to interrupt or ask their hundred questions. Our conversation meanders from the past to the future and back to the present.
She gently prods me to the dining table to eat. And, unbeknownst to myself I wolf down the hottest, softest and yummiest chappatis, with green moong dal sabzi and tomato chutney, washed down with mom’s love and more coffee.
Memories of times past come rushing back – when the whole family used to sit around the table at dinner time arguing, laughing, singing and sharing our fears, success stories and failures.
I stretch and unwind like I haven’t done in a long time. There is a sense of peace and contentment – of being a child again, completely pampered for a few hours, of being at the receiving end of pure unadulterated love, mom’s love.
In the morning, as I leave, she hugs me, and pins a strand of fragrant jasmine flowers on my hair.
My eyes mist over. It is time to go, back to my duties and to my family.
Love you, Amma. There is simply no one like you.