Every Sunday, at around eleven a.m., my husband calls his parents to talk to them. I am sure, back home, my parents-in-law are eagerly awaiting this weekly call. My father-in-law usually picks up the phone. My husband and his Dad chat for three to four minutes, and then he passes the phone to my mother-in-law.
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This call goes on for a while. My husband talks about his week, she talks about hers. He laughs merrily at the things she says. They have minor differences of opinion about a few things, and argue good naturedly. She asks after his health, and asks him to take good care of himself.
Sometimes they talk about old neighbours who have passed on, or their children or grandchildren, who have graduated or gotten married or had babies. These are their shared memories, of my husband’s growing up years and the stories of people who shared their lives ‘then’ – family, neighbours and friends.
The conversation then moves to our children and me, and my husband talks about our week, and what’s been happening in our lives.
As I go around the house completing my chores, I watch my husband’s complete absorption. Though he usually doesn’t talk much, this is one person with whom he talks for long periods. The conversation meanders through various topics, about TV shows, about health and food.
My mom-in-law’s love manifests in many ways when we meet. She best expresses her love for all of us through her cooking. Each time we visit, we come back loaded with home made jackfruit jam for my husband and gooseberry pickle for me, along with many other things for each of her grandchildren.
However, since we live far away and visit them only twice a year, these weekly phone calls with her son keep this special bond alive, till our next visit.
What a lovely interaction of BIG LOVE!
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BIG LOVE…loved that…
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Sweet!
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True that Marissa
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that is so nice to hear about… relationships like that are very special
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Indeed..Thank you so much.
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The depth of the relationship is described in such beautifully simple words.
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Thank you so very much
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What an intimate and beautiful relationship! Thank you for sharing 😊
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Thank you so much Ken. The bond is getting deeper now as both parents and we age.
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omg reading this I can only hope my son and I will have the same relationship…beautiful
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I am sure it will be…India
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This truly is special in your husband’s ability to listen and share with his mother. You never know how long anyone will live so these visits over the phone are wonderful and blessings. 🌈
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So true, Robin. One should make the best use if time available with loved ones
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