There was a time, long ago, maybe not so long ago, when smartphones did not exist and videogames used to be faraway things that you only saw in the movies!
There was a time when happiness could be contained within a chocolate given to you by your parents.
These days, it is difficult to motivate children with simple things, those things that made up our childhood.
From what I observe all around me, today’s children love the games on their iPads and their parents’ smartphones. They are easily motivated and enthusiastic about these games, much like we were about chocolates and picnics.
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My son is no exception. He loves this game called ‘Minecraft’ (hope I’ve got the name right!
We spend a lot of time talking to him about the ill-effects of playing continuously (exaggerating sometimes, for good measure).
To reach a win-win without his getting addicted to these electronic devices, we have worked out a system where he gets to play the game thrice a day, for 10 minutes each. This seems to be working very well.
Last week, while we were at the airport, we heard an announcement that our flight was delayed by two hours. I went back to my book, while my husband napped. My daughter and her grandma were busy chatting. My son paced the airport floor, back and forth.
After a while, his constant pacing got to me. I called him and asked him why he was pacing?
He said, “I am actually working out how to move to the next level in Minecraft.”
I rolled my eyes and said, “Is this game all you can think about?”
He knows I get irritated by game-talk, so he worriedly asked me, “If I am only thinking about the game in my mind would that count as strategic planning or as an addiction to the phone?”
Hmmm..Strategic planning eh? I quietly went back to my book.